Ah, I'm working from the preview version, which doesn't have that example. Good to know!

Everything as a threat is actually easy when I think of highly dysfunctional living situations - there's people with little or no impulse control and respect for other folks' boundaries, and other folks with irrational responses/mechanisms controlling their behavior.

Everyone is neutral - just with very, very narrow vision of what they're doing and a tendency to over do it all.