[identity profile] brynndragon.livejournal.com 2008-04-24 06:33 pm (UTC)(link)
The fact that women started it makes it even more clear that his involvement was a form of taking advantage of the situation. As someone who is bi and poly I've encountered couples where the woman tries to pick up a woman and then her partner oh-so-sneakily inserts himself into the deal afterwards - this certainly has more than a few similarities.